Anonymous asked: Do people really just "hook up" at gw like there aren't any real relationships?
Yes, sustainable, healthy, long-term, gooey, grossly sweet, happy, all that jazz relationships are possible at GW. (Sigh) Well actually…cough…confession time….despite my efforts (as displayed by this blog) and my militant feminism/ethical credo, I in fact have a boyfriend. A long term one too (shocking I know); like it’s gonna be six month this month (wut creeeeeeepy lol I know #help #how_do_I_relationshit?). How did this happen to me?! Well I just was me: I met my boyfriend through another hookup buddy and I think it was a the best impulsive decision I’ve ever made to invite him and her over for a kickback. He ended up asking for my number and it kinda just happened from there because I decided he was kind and genuine and therefore worth my time. So be yourself and you’ll find that person(s) because yes it is overplayed and uber cheesy, but being yourself will guarantee you that the person who wants you will want the real, whole you. So yeah, I am still crazy as fuck (peruse the blog for reference) and that won’t change no matter who I am relationshitting with at the time hahaha. And still, I found someone worth my time, in my own time, and I’m so thankful and happy for that all the time (wasn’t that a cute line? God kill me). I know I’m not a lucky exception because I’ve seen this same thing play out with tons of other people: good things come to those who are themselves completely and are willing to put themselves and their happiness first. You do you and someone will definitely want you, the real balls out crazy you because that person is kickass and isn’t going anywhere but awesome places. With that disgustingly hopeful and gooey ending, keep sending in the questions, comments, and ideas my fellow colonials! Keep being weird kiddies.